聰明老人幸福十誡
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“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
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一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。
8 H& H7 E1 w# Z" p2 ktvb now,tvbnow,bttvbDon’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. & N, I7 _. n5 j$ G9 W6 e' x' N& h/ z
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二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。 # m6 s: g" ~. z* P% s
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints. 公仔箱論壇' Y( F+ k* O/ y; x) g8 D
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
7 |$ b \# X Ltvboxnow.comNo necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
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9 T( F$ e2 ]; S5 ~7 V% r; p* C2 |四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。
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五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 " ^0 Y. p. J) [0 ~$ }1 B9 H" |3 h
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across.
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六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。 , h' D% Q+ H3 G' l c S
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. , {5 l0 u% v( _9 p/ l
' B! j5 V9 x6 e1 F% N& |4 z; U% Gtvb now,tvbnow,bttvb八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。 - V& |& L9 j5 q/ u3 _0 [ n( j
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
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九、不要疑心病太重,要感激還願意留在你身邊的人,免得最後連他也走了!
" x8 j# G0 o1 E) n4 b/ mtvboxnow.comDon’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually.
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十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。
7 z m6 L9 t8 K0 S6 [9 FParticipate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.
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9 b; ~/ R0 `/ d! W8 s9 z如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。 & x! @+ c+ G1 B5 ]
If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |