/ L8 A( [( L3 u$ w" U' f# ]---> : ^; T/ F. M8 K: @ 9 G4 `) h0 f2 ^5 G o( ~+ O& G" |; x love people as the way they are, respect them and be curious about them instead of trying to change them to fit them into your pre-defined model of how they should be.